Bee Commander: "...Regarding advice.... it seems every time I get too big for my britches I get knocked back into the next county."
efmesch:That, pretty much, is what deservedly happens to everyone.
Bee Commander: "... I will share what has worked for me. Again, I am so new to this and learn everyday."
efmesch: That, "learning everyday", is true of anyone here, and, IMHO, is a good policy to follow. We try to share our experiences, which is why not everyone agrees on every issue. But the lump sum of it all comes out to be positive learning for us all.