My dad died in 1973 at the ripe old age of 86. He was born in 1887. He was 53 years old when I was born in 1939. His dad was 54 years old when he was born. My grandfather was born in 1833 in Alabama. He was a doctor in the Civil War. (looking back it doesn't appear to have been a CIVIL war). He is buried in Parker's Chapel near El Dorado, AR. His grave is in a cemetery that is still used and is in good condition. I visit his grave site when I work in that area.
The cemetery where my parents and some other kin lay is near Athens, Texas. That cemetery is extremely well kept, and it is the resting place of five Confederate veterans. We place flowers and flags on their graves, as we do all veterans each Veteran's Day.
There is a historical cemetery association in Brown, County, Texas. They think there is an old abandoned cemetery on my ranch. I have given them permission to search for it, but as of this date they have not done so. I plowed up what appears to be part of a tombstone with my chisel plow some two years back. I didn't think anything of it at the time, but it may be the remains of an old grave marker. It appears to be marble and about two inches thick and one foot by 10 inches with break marks on one long side. There is no writing, but it is a cut and polished stone. It is not natural to where it was found. Oh well, time will tell.