Hey, Woody, I have bought bee bee trees from John and have had pretty good luck with them. They're going into their 3rd year and are about 8 feet tall. They haven't bloomed yet. I started 100 seeds and wound up with 1 tree out of the bunch.
I'm really surprised that you are having trouble with John. I've only dealt with him once, but I was well pleased. The response was prompt and the trees showed up quickly and packed well. I've never read of anyone having any issues with him. It would certainly be posted on BeeSource, if it was a common issue. I'm inclined to think that something is wrong with him. Illness, maybe?