Ef, I've had a lot of fun with the 'uninitiated' myself. A bee may be batting at a window, and I say "Oh! let me get her and put her outside" I open the sliding door and set her free and say "Go play with your sister's." One evening my burly nephew was sitting in our living room and I did that, but I stopped at the chair where he was sitting with his arm resting on the arm of the chair, I let her crawl off of my finger and onto his arm. He froze for about a minute, then started to relax and he watched her groom herself. Now, he's fascinated with bees and has actually helped my in the hives one time. It was really cool!