tom, i am very sad for you and very sorry to read what has happened.
like others have said, please stay around. consider the desensitization shots tom, as ef mentioned. had i given up my bees or not been a bee keeper, i would have chosen the process for the protection anyway. there is another member here ShepardsWatchFarm, who recently posted that he would be going through the shots:
Against doctors recommendationgive it some thought, or send him a pm, or if there are any questions i can answer, i certainly would.
whatever your decision, you are a valued member here, whether you are actively keeping bees or not. you can teach others, and also as iddee mentioned, your knowledge of nature and the outdoors.