Okay lazy, as to not raise anyone's ire, this would be the more genteel way to inquire..
"Hey beeboy? how are those two lovely ladies connected to you in your avatar?
Or,.... "Hey Beeboy? Such lovely women in your avatar?"
And beeboy would come back with "Why thank you lazy, they are my wife and daughter, I love them so much!"
You see, beeboy and I exchanged honey with lotion, and I asked the same question. His response was so heartwarming. I was captured by how lovely the women are with the sun coming across their face and such genuine smiles.
There is your etiquette lesson for the day...
whether you asked for it or not...