I love a good rat scenario! Here are some of my thoughts:
1.Join a local bee club because beekeeping varies widely across the state and country. Introduce yourself and seek out beekeepers close to you that are willing and open to talk. Get chummy with that beek. They are a wealth of info.
2. It's late August. Go to a local farmers market. Look for the beekeeper selling honey. Politely inquire about bee clubs, mentors, classes, suggested reading material, etc. If you have done some of your homework and ask intelligent questions, they will know how serious you are.
4.Read more than dealer catalogs. (BOOKS) Dadant, Brushy etc. are full of info, but their goal is to sell you equipment. Not all of it is necessary to get started. You may have studied the catalogs for weeks, but beekeeping is a life long learning adventure. Also, there is no substitute for actually opening a hive and observing what is taking place.
5. It's late August, you still have time to assist your new beekeeper friend with his hives. Get stung and see if you are allergic. Body chemistry changes over the years. If you haven't been stung since childhood, you may have a severe reaction. You may discover that this really isn't the hobby for you. You might be better off just planting some bee friendly plants.
6. If you do take the plunge and the spouse is apprehensive about bees in the backyard, give it time. Mine came around especially when co-workers, family and friends ooh and ahh over receiving honey for Christmas and birthdays. He still has no interest in getting near a hive, but he doesn't comment when I spend money on this crazy hobby. From reading posts on this forum, I noticed many spouses have gotten involved with making soaps, candles and packaging honey.