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two real cowboys
« on: November 21, 2016, 10:03:58 pm »
My wife and I were shopping at the Stephenville, Texas Walmart store when I met an old rancher that I know pretty well.  He was with his brother.  Both of them live on the old family ranch, and both of them are widowers.  They are old school, traditional ranchers that live on land that has been in their family since the 1880's.  Both of them had well trimmed mustaches, dress cowboy boots, starched jeans and shirts, wide leather belts with a folding knife in a sheath, big buckles and traditional Stetson hats with the old cattleman's crease.  One wore a long sleeved white shirt and the other a tan shirt, but both had sharp creases.  When I spoke to Ed, the brother I knew, he introduced me to his brother Jack.  After a good hand shake my wife appeared, and they took off their hats as I introduced her to them.  Now I ask you ladies, how many men have taken their hats off and bowed to shake your hand lately.  They are old school cowboys that work from dawn to dark and come to town on Saturday, and they dress their finest to come to town.  They are the strong silent guys that work the land and live on what it gives them.  They are fiercely independent, but very charitable.  They are willing to help all people that want to work, but they would not support one person that did not want to work.  These guys are a dying breed of men that will be sorely missed.  They are the last of the great American cowboys.  We still have some young men that make a living working cattle, but only a few of them are fortunate enough to own enough land to make their living from it.  These guys rode fence lines on horseback, penned cattle with horses and dogs, doctored cattle in the field, in lieu of a nice set of steel pens complete with a squeeze chute.  They are the real deal, and I wish all of you could have been there with me to mingle with real men.

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Re: two real cowboys
« Reply #1 on: November 21, 2016, 10:13:41 pm »
I'd be proud to shake a hand like that before I pass on.

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Re: two real cowboys
« Reply #2 on: November 22, 2016, 03:22:36 am »
There is a dying breed!  I work with kids all day that won't even pull their pants up!  I had THE talk yesterday with a girl.  I explained to her that "ladies" don't use language like she directed towards me and I was sure that she wanted to be a lady.  Insert an emoji here that rolls it's eyes!

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Re: two real cowboys
« Reply #3 on: November 22, 2016, 04:25:43 pm »

   Stand up when a lady enters the room. Hold her chair for her, open the door for her, and yes, you take your hat off when you are introduced as well as when a lady enters the room.. Provided of course your hat is on inside.. which does happen in non formal environments.
   I have carried new born calves up out of the crick bottom in storms (and been run over by a mad momma cow) I have my horse and still ride fences for those farmers that dont like their fields rutted up by vehicles.
   But have never considered myself as a cowboy..   I like my wide brim hats...  they keep the sun off my neck and face, and when raining they keep the rain from running dowwn the back of my neck. When the cold winter wind is blowing, a simple tip of the head keeps the sharp cold wind from my face...
   But I have had my hats made fun of.. people laugh at me and ask if I think I am a cowboy. And one time even had someone take my hat from the table beside me and put it on to make fun of it. That ended in an overnight stay at a local government owned building.........  But I am sure I was much more comfortable than the other fellow.

   I have been yelled at when my horse took a dump in the road on the way to ride fences.. I have been yelled at by women that think I am patronizing them for;
   Opening the door for them.
   Taking my hat off
  and calling them Ma'am'

   Which is why I moved back to the Midwest, where there seem to be less idiots.. maybe its just because there is less people?

 No one has ever made fun of my hat. The ladies still smile and say thank you when I open the door for them, when I take my hat off at their approach and when I call them Ma'am.

           and yet,, somehow, it is still WRONG to leave the toilet seat UP when I am done...

   I have often wondered why it is so much more difficult to put it down than it is to put it up? WHY does it take so much effort and struggle?  I have come to understand that somehow there IS a difference from the plethora of swear words that issued from the bathroom in the darkest hours of the night...  So I have actually tried to make it a habit to avoid the pain...
   But then, i have also had my doubts about ....   "Someone" actually "falling in" when the seat was left in the UP position...    While I have not yet had the courage to actually MEASURE the difference between bottom and toilet rim...  Just the visual clues tell me that falling in is not an option.. I have also never mentioned that I did not think it possible, but have often wondered if there were others who have noticed this strange phenomenon?

   I do not suggest the tape measure method for checking yourself..  a simple LOOK and visual guesstimate might be your best bet.
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Re: two real cowboys
« Reply #4 on: November 22, 2016, 10:08:23 pm »
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Re: two real cowboys
« Reply #5 on: November 23, 2016, 10:08:27 pm »
Glad you got that off your chest Lazy. Get a second bathroom. :laugh: Eat some turkey you'll feel better soon.

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Re: two real cowboys
« Reply #6 on: November 24, 2016, 01:12:53 pm »
When I was growing up, all adults were referred to as Mister, Miss or Mrs. Even when they told us to call them by their first name it was Miss Eva or Mister Jim, etc. All ladies were ma'am regardless of age. I still get looks when I call a 18 yo waitress ma'am in a diner. Heck, I still call my daughters ma'am. Holding doors, giving up my seat, that's just the price we pay for being born male. :)
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Re: two real cowboys
« Reply #7 on: November 24, 2016, 07:10:48 pm »


 

           and yet,, somehow, it is still WRONG to leave the toilet seat UP when I am done...

   I have often wondered why it is so much more difficult to put it down than it is to put it up? WHY does it take so much effort and struggle?  I have come to understand that somehow there IS a difference from the plethora of swear words that issued from the bathroom in the darkest hours of the night...  So I have actually tried to make it a habit to avoid the pain...
   But then, i have also had my doubts about ....   "Someone" actually "falling in" when the seat was left in the UP position...    While I have not yet had the courage to actually MEASURE the difference between bottom and toilet rim...  Just the visual clues tell me that falling in is not an option.. I have also never mentioned that I did not think it possible, but have often wondered if there were others who have noticed this strange phenomenon?

 
I have come to check every trip to the bathroom, day or night.  On great occasion, the husband will leave the seat up.  While one may not fall in all the way, you will get your heinie wet with cold water.  That will wake you up real quick if it happens in the middle of the night.   :o  Also there is the sensation that you are going to fall in and you start flaying your arms trying to grab anything you can and your heinie still gets wet. 

As for young men not being taught how to be a gentlemen these days, I will say that many young women haven't been taught how to act when they find a gentlemen.

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Re: two real cowboys
« Reply #8 on: November 25, 2016, 05:43:18 pm »
I have come to check every trip to the bathroom, day or night.  On great occasion, the husband will leave the seat up.  While one may not fall in all the way, you will get your heinie wet with cold water.  That will wake you up real quick if it happens in the middle of the night.   :o  Also there is the sensation that you are going to fall in and you start flaying your arms trying to grab anything you can and your heinie still gets wet. 

   LOL.....
   I am rather proud of the fact that my woman of 28 years now is getting old and round with me.. sorry B12 but she can turn sideways and shes NOT going to get her heinie wet..  I am NOT complaining and wouldnt change a thing... however, the arm flailing would be great to witness!!! Unfortunately that would mean being close enough for immediate repercussions so I will regrettably have to use my imagination and try to giggle silently.. VERY silently.


   Younger women seem to think that being called Ma'am is me telling them they look old??  I don't get yelled at here in the Midwest, but used to get yelled at often for it when living out east.
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Re: two real cowboys
« Reply #9 on: November 27, 2016, 09:57:54 am »
Had a friend of mine tell me awile back he was in Pittsburgh and tried to hold the door for a woman and got cussed out.

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« Reply #10 on: November 27, 2016, 08:36:03 pm »
Since the bra burning liberation of some women back in the eighties, I have been told about three times that "I am able to open my own doors" by women.  In every case, I simply remark "it's your loss," smile and continue on my merry way.

My generation were taught that all females, all ages, are the "fairer" sex, and men are placed on earth to assist them in whatever needs they have.  That especially includes courtesy and politeness.  I love all the women from birth to death and look forward to assisting them, and if some of them become upset, that's OK, it won't change who I am.

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Re: two real cowboys
« Reply #11 on: November 28, 2016, 08:37:18 pm »
 and if some of them become upset, that's OK, it won't change who I am.


   Well said
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« Reply #12 on: November 28, 2016, 08:47:39 pm »
I had a young lady leaving a business in front of me today. She held the door for me. I said  "Thank You, Ma'am". She replied with "you're welcome".
We went on our merry way. I guess courtesy goes both ways, and is alive and well in the south.
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