I don't want to steal this thread, but I thought I would give an update on my issues with a mean, mean hive.
I called a member of my local bee club that does bee rescue. He collects swarms, does cut outs, trap outs, etc. He said he would like them and would come pick them up. We agreed to work out a trade of the woodenware.
Afterwards, I caught my neighbor and talked to him. He gave me a slightly different story than my husband. Hmmmm! It wasn't quite as dramatic as my husband led me to believe. BUT the important thing is a good neighbor relationship. I could tell he appreciated my concern for his well being and that I was willing to sacrifice a rogue colony. I assured him that I wanted to be a good beekeeper and sometimes that means being a good neighbor too.